1．記住該記住的，忘記該忘記的。改變能改變的，接受不能改變的

    Remember what should be remembered, and forget what should be forgotten. Alter what is changeable, and accept what is mutable.

    2．能沖刷一切的除了眼淚，就是時間，以時間來推移感情，時間越長，沖突越淡，仿佛不斷稀釋的茶

    Apart from tears, only time could wear everything away. While feeling is being processed by time, conflicts would be reconciled as time goes by, just like a cup of tea that is being continuously diluted.

    3．怨言是上天得至人類最大的供物，也是人類禱告中最真誠的部分

    Complaints are the greatest offerings that God obtains from human beings, as well as the most faithful prayers human beings might utter to God.

    4．智慧的代價是矛盾。這是人生對人生觀開的玩笑。

    Wisdom appears in contradiction to itself, which is a trick life plays on philosophy of life.

    5．世上的姑娘總以為自己是驕傲的公主（除了少數極丑和少數極聰明的姑娘例外）

    Girls always look on themselves as proud princesses, with the exception of a small number of either extremely ugly or exceedingly smart ones.

    6．如果敵人讓你生氣，那說明你還沒有勝他的把握

    It can be inferred that you lack confidence in a victory over your rivals from the fact that you’re irritable against them.

    7．如果朋友讓你生氣，那說明你仍然在意他的友情

    From that you would get angry with your friends, we can conclude you sitll care about the friendship between you.

    8．令狐沖說“有些事情本身我們無法控制，只好控制自己。” 可是，他算什么！！

    “ Something is out of our control, so we have to command ourselves.“ said Linghu Chong, a known character in a Chinese novel about persons adept in martial arts(武俠小說？）. Who is, however, fucking he?

    9．我不知道我現在做的哪些是對的，那些是錯的，而當我終于老死的時候我才知道這些。所以我現在所能做的就是盡力做好每一件事，然后等待著老死。

    Only till my natural death.could I tell which of what I have been doing is right or wrong, so now I have to try to do well in everything, and then wait to die a natural death.

    10．也許有些人很可惡，有些人很卑鄙。而當我設身為他想象的時候，我才知道：他比我還可憐。所以請原諒所有你見過的人，好人或者壞人

    Some may be wicked, and some may be despicable. Only when I put myself in their position did I know they are more miserable than I. So forgive all that you have met, no matter what kind of persons they are.

    11．魚對水說你看不到我的眼淚，因為我在水里．水說我能感覺到你的眼淚，因為你在我心里。

    “You couldn’t see my tears cause I am in the water.“ Fish said to water.

    “But I could feel your tears cause you are in me.“ Answered water.

    12．快樂要有悲傷作陪，雨過應該就有天晴。如果雨后還是雨，如果憂傷之后還是憂傷．請讓我們從容面對這離別之后的離別。微笑地去尋找一個不可能出現的你！

    Happiness is accompanied by sorrow, and it would turn sunny after rain as well. If rain remains after rain and sorrow remains after sorrow, please take those farewells easy, and turn to smilingly look for yourself who is never to appear.

    13．死亡教會人一切，如同考試之后公布的結果？？雖然恍然大悟，但為時晚矣！

    Like the outcome after an exam, death makes us aware of anything, That is, it’s too late to take a tumble.

    14．你出生的時候，你哭著，周圍的人笑著；你逝去的時候，你笑著，而周圍的人在哭！

    When you were born, you’re crying but lookers-on were smiling. When you are passing away, you’re smiling but lookers-on are crying.

    15．男人在結婚前覺得適合自己的女人很少，結婚后覺得適合自己的女人很多

    Man might think that few women fit him before his marriage, and contrarily when they get married.

    16．于千萬人之中，遇見你所遇見的人；于千萬年之中，時間的無涯荒野里，沒有早一步，也沒有晚一步，剛巧趕上了

    Among thousands of people, you meet those you’ve met. Through thousands of years, with the boundlessness of time, you happen to meet them, neither earlier nor a bit too late.

    17．每個人都有潛在的能量，只是很容易:被習慣所掩蓋，被時間所迷離,被惰性所消磨.

    Everyone has his inherent ability( power or capacity?) which is easily concealed by habbits, blurred by time, and eroded by laziness( or inertia?).

    18．人生短短幾十年，不要給自己留下了什么遺憾，想笑就笑，想哭就哭，該愛的時候就去愛，無謂壓抑自己

    Be sure that you have never had any regrets in your life which only lasts for a few decades. Laugh or cry as you like, and it‘s meaningless to oppress yourself.

    19．《和平年代》里的話：當幻想和現實面對時，總是很痛苦的。要么你被痛苦擊倒，要么你把痛苦踩在腳下

    While our dream is confronted with the reality, you always feel painful. Just trample on the pain, or you‘ll be beat down by it.

    20．真正的愛情是不講究熱鬧不講究排場不講究繁華更不講究嚎頭的

    A true love is what doesn‘t strive for busyness, for extravagance, for luxury, and moreover for hokum.

    21．生命中，不斷地有人離開或進入。于是，看見的，看不見了；記住的，遺忘了。生命中，不斷地有得到和失落。于是，看不見的，看見了；遺忘的，記住了。然而，看不見的，是不是就等于不存在？記住的，是不是永遠不會消失？

    There is someone that is coming or passing away in your life around the clock, so you may lose sight of those seen, and forget those remembered. There is gain and loss in your life, so you may catch sight of those unseen, and remember those forgotten. Nevertheless, doesn‘t the unseen exist for sure? Will the remembered remain for ever?

    22．我們確實活得艱難，一要承受種種外部的壓力，更要面對自己內心的困惑。在苦苦掙扎中，如果有人向你投以理解的目光，你會感到一種生命的暖意，或許僅有短暫的一瞥，就足以使我感奮不已。

    It‘s true that we have been leading a difficult life, for we need not only to be under various external pressures, but also to be in the face of internal perplexities.You would be affected by the warmth of life if someone gives you a understanding look during your bitter struggle.Even a mere glance would make you moved and inpired.

    23．我不去想是否能夠成功,既然選擇了遠方,便只顧風雨兼程；我不去想,身后會不會襲來寒風冷雨,既然目標是地平線,留給世界的只能是背影.

    I wouldn‘t care success or failure, for I will only struggle ahead as long as I have been destined to the distance. I wouldn‘t care the difficulties around, for what I can leave on the earth is only their view of my back since I have been marching toward the horizontal.

    24．后悔是一種耗費精神的情緒.后悔是比損失更大的損失,比錯誤更大的錯誤.所以不要后悔

    Pentinece is something that enervates our spirit, causing a greater loss than loss itself and making a bigger mistake than mistake itself, so never regret.